Posted at 11:22 pm , on August 3, 2018
A few weeks ago I was staring at my best friend. Finally, I found a female my age who understands me and encouraged my growth. It was scary to see how far we’ve come in our walk with Christ.
Sometimes it feels good to be heard and talk about things my future spouse wouldn’t care about. I’m pretty sure my husband will not care that I found this amazing hair product. Or how our past boy issues disciplined us to wait for the right one. Knowing you can just talk to someone without judgment is rewarding.
In this past phase of my life, I’m learning how to fellowship with women of Christ. Because I don’t have to worry about attraction, I can let my guard down and be myself. Girl time empowers us as women so we can achieve the life God wants us to have.
Not all female friendships have to be about drama or envy. A healthy relationship uplifts and develops your spirit.
Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger
Posted at 3:31 pm , on January 10, 2018
Opening up to people can be scary. Insecurities and anxiety creep up and backing out seem like that easiest solution.
For the past 5 months – I’ve been working on this.
First I started off with having positive females in my life. Getting cake with the girls every Thursday was rewarding. Chit chatting and being understood gave me the courage to try at life. The simple things made me feel so comfortable as a woman.
I’m sharing my story to suggest: let people in. Not everyone is going to be kind and cool. You can at least try. If someone shows they are cruel – walk away. But I know for a fact someone will accept and love the awesome person you are.
I don’t have all the answers in life but I do know when you are being authentic and jolly – you will find your place in this world.
18 There is no fear in love; instead, perfect love drives out fear, because fear involves punishment.So the one who fears is not complete in love. 19 We love because he first loved us. 1 John 4: 18-19